Get over the crush on your best friend

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It is possible to have crush on our best friends, its very rare case. 
Here is some Ways to get over the crush on your best friend.

1. 1
   Don't get angry at them, especially if they don't understand how deeply you feel for them. They didn't do anything wrong and getting angry is just going to push them further away and destroy your friendship.
   
   
2. 2
   Understand they don't control their feelings. Come to terms with the fact that it isn't their fault they aren't attracted to you that way. This is hard, but a few tears (or a few buckets of tears), a few chick-flicks and treats and a few peppy songs you can dance to will keep you on your feet.
3. 3
   Clear your mind. Don't spend too much time thinking by yourself or about yourself. You will most likely be thinking about him/her and start feeling depressed. Hang out with friends, try making new recipes or experimenting with art. Develop your talents and make goals for yourself.
4. 4
   Exercise. Go to the gym and workout. Get your mind off of it and feel better about yourself
5. 5
   Spend time with other friends. You know you will see this person again. They are your best friend and you don't want to lose them. Try to limit your time with them and start spending time with other people (namely ones of the sex you are attracted to). Start dating and don't feel obligated to your best friend, they're not dating you.
6. 6
   Fix your mood. Find comic relief. Try to see the funny side of things, read humorous books, rent a funny movie, or watch funny videos on YouTube.
7. 7
   Make an exciting change to make yourself feel sexy. Treat your self to a hair-cut, or a new outfit. Make yourself feel confident. However, employ this newfound confidence in pursuing other potential relationships, rather than hoping your friend will suddenly perceive you differently.
8. 8
   Learn from the experience and come out stronger. Even though it might of hurt you know that there are other guys out there who will do anything to be in a relationship with you. Always remember the better guys out there waiting for you and be strong.
9. 9
   Acceptance. Always remember that the toughest part will be to observe your best friend be normal around you while you could struggle to do so. There is no way around it but to accept that everything cannot possibly be reciprocated.
10. 10
    Try falling out of love. Make lists of all the things that go against loving him/her - love is blind, try to voluntarily open your eyes.
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    If all else fails, think about how devastated you would be if the two of you started dating/getting serious and then broke up. Keep in mind how important your friendship is to both of you.
12. 12
    Try not to dwell on it, and either go out and make some new friends, or hang out with the old. But never be mean about them!! It will only get back to them and then you will have lost a best friend.
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    It's not healthy to keep hoping they will one day feel the same. Try to emancipate yourself from them for a while so that you can rid yourself of your feelings for them, because if you don't, the time you spend around them will be tense and bittersweet.
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    Try to stop thinking about him/her. You'll only feel worse if you do. Meet new people, talk to your friends.
15. 15
    Remember that if they liked you but changed their minds at the last minute, you shouldn't get angry or blame things on them. Your friendship should be strong enough to not let something like that keep a good thing down.
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    Try to convince yourself that someone else wiil come along..for they are not the only fish in the world.However if that fails then the next step is to tell them exactly how you feel about them maybe you guys can work things out

Tips:

• People handle this situation differently. Some feel they must talk it out; others find it better to say nothing. As a person gets older and more mature, they may find that putting feelings into words damages the relationship. Sometimes it is better to be grateful for what you have rather than to cause a showdown and lose friendship completely. Friendships change over time and if you are patient, you might get what you want years from now.
• In some cases, it might be better if you don't tell him/her. The moment you confess it, it becomes a real fact that you love him/her, and it would be much more difficult to get over it.
• Really focus on trying to find another boy/girl that you're interested in. It's hard to stop loving him/her when they're the only one you see. But don't neglect your best friend.
• If you are upset after finding out they don't like you, talk to someone you trust, like a friend or counselor, about how you feel. Tell them how you're hurt and ask for advice. Holding things in makes you depressed, and that can make everything much worse.
• Tell him/her as soon as possible that you have feelings for them. Waiting only makes it worse. It's not fair to you to have to keep it in, and you can't get over them until you know they don't feel the same way. It'll get worse before it gets better, but it will get better.
• Still be friends with them. It's not fun to lose a friend because of a problem in a relationship and it's even harder with a best friend. Once you do get over them, you'll be glad you guys are still friends.
• Since they are your best friend you probably see them everyday at school so try to just kind of be yourself and act normal. It is hard, but if he/she is your best friend, then you were probably a little more comfortable around him/her to begin with, so just act normal and don't try to impress him/her or make them like you back. IT DOES NOT WORK!!!!
• Only tell the those who you can really trust, if you must, because if you tell someone who likes to gossip it will get back to your crush and possibly make them feel uncomfortable.
• Just because your best friend knows you love them doesn't mean that you have to stop being friends. Maybe spending more time with them will make you see that you don't love them like you thought and you just confused your real feelings. It hurts a lot especially when your crush is going out with someone else that you hate. When your crush does not know how much you feel for them it makes it even harder. But don't let it get to you. Try to get over your crush; although it is hard, it's necessary. Try to hang out with other boys/girls. Once you like someone else your feelings for your crush may disappear. But if that doesn't happen, tell the person your feelings. If you are too afraid, text or call them so you don't have to talk in person. Just let them know how you feel. Also if you best friend is being mean to you and blaming the situation all on you, then its not worth it
• Remember: boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, but a true friend is there to the end. So just stay friends with them, if you start dating them, there is a chance you will break up (studies show the chances of relationships ending in a break up are high, but even higher the younger you are) and that could ruin your friendship for good. If they are your friend (and you stay friends), you would have them for a long, long time.

Warnings :

• Make sure you are over them when you're with them and away from them. Sometimes you'll find that you have gotten over them when you're not around them, but the second they come up to you, you fall for them again.
• Don't tell them you love them if you know for sure that they only want to be friends. This could damage the friendship.
• Don't overindulge on treats. You will feel even more depressed in the morning.
• Whatever you do, do not cut contact with the person. Because they aren't in love with you, when you avoid them they will eventually just hang out with other people, causing a rift between you two. This can be hard to fix and can ruin any hopes of being close friends again.
• Try to be thankful for the wonderful friendship you have, always wanting more could destroy your friendship.
• Don't try to change yourself to become what you think is attractive to the other person - they will only see you as fake and insecure, a person who is not fun to be with, even as friends!
• Don't attempt to make them jealous - if they really only see you as a friend, kissing another guy/girl in front of them won't really affect them, and you'll just end up feeling regretful and disappointed with yourself later.
• If you do tell them, don't automatically assume how they're going to react. This sometimes makes you seem extremely foolish. If you're good enough friends, this might not affect your relationship as much as you think.
• If you push too hard or show your emotion a lot, you will fight over little things. Make sure to give them space if you're still not over them